Hello my dear ladies-readers!

I would like to share my story with you and to explain why and how I’ve started my blog.

First, let me introduce myself!

My name is Olesia, and I am a Russian young woman who came to the U.S. 7 years ago. I was always fascinated and interested in a psychology, but especially in a psychology of a relationship between men and women.

However, the story of my blog begins in the last year, when I separated with my fiance, who I was in a four year long relationship with. I have made my own choice, but that separation have become one of the most traumatic events in my life, which was followed by even more devastating experiences.

I ended up without a job and a place to live at in one of the most expensive cities in the world,San Francisco. In addition, I was overwhelmed with a huge feelings of guilt,fear and loss. He was my support,my best friend,my everything…

Somehow, I ended up living in a very expensive for me hostel, which I couldn’t afford paying on my own. Plus, I got so used to someone taking care of all my problems that I immediately started looking for a new man,who would fulfill that role for me.

As a result, I ended up in a few very toxic for me relationships. Stress dramatically affected my health and my choices in life.

Since then,I healed,but I have created this blog as a part of my emotional healing and as a source of advice for other women. I decided to share with women, going through the same situation as myself, my experience, and everything I’ve learned from it.

P.S. The name of the website came from the will to find a healthy relationship in a combination of love, and wisdom. Both of them are united in the orange color. Tie means a connection between the two partners. I think, the healthiest relationship is based on passion, love and wisdom!

I wish you all luck in your life. But most importantly, love and value yourself.