Hello my dear ladies-readers!

I would like to share my story with you and to explain why and how I’ve started my blog.

First, let me introduce myself!

My name is Olesia, and I am a Russian young woman who came to the U.S. 7 years ago. I was always fascinated and interested in a psychology, but especially in a psychology of a relationship between men and women.

However, the story of my blog begins in the last year, when I separated with my fiance, who I was in a four year long relationship with. I have made my own choice, but that separation have become one of the most traumatic events in my life, which was followed by even more devastating experiences.

I ended up without a job and a place to live at in one of the most expensive cities in the world,San Francisco. In addition, I was overwhelmed with a huge feelings of guilt,fear and loss. He was my support,my best friend,my everything…

Somehow, I ended up living in a very expensive for me hostel, which I couldn’t afford paying on my own. Plus, I got so used to someone taking care of all my problems that I immediately started looking for a new man,who would fulfill that role for me.

As a result, I ended up in a few very toxic for me relationships. I started shaking, I was crying every day, and my head was twitching in a neurotic tic. My face got covered in a very bad type of acne,which no doctor could heal. I became so embarrassed of my face that I could barely show up in public.

Since then,I healed,but I have created this blog as a part of my emotional healing. I decided to share with women, going through the same situation as myself, my experience, and everything I’ve learned from it.

P.S. My head is not twitching anymore and my acne are almost gone.As soon as my nervous system came to a normal state, all my physical problems were gone too.

The name of the website came from the will to find a healthy relationship in a combination of love, and wisdom. Both of them are united in the orange color. Tie means a connection between the two partners. I think, the healthiest relationship is based on passion, love and wisdom!

I wish you all luck in your life. But most importantly, love and value yourself.